• Shinies and not-so shiny was: shinies and sickies

    From Nancy Backus@1:2320/100 to Damon A. Getsman on Thu Jul 23 14:32:02 2015
    Quoting Damon A. Getsman to Nancy Backus on 11-Jul-2015 09:54 <=-
    Re: Re: shinies and sickies was: camping
    By: Nancy Backus to Damon A. Getsman on Sat Jun 27 2015 19:09:18

    I'm sorta testing a theory... that something might be thinking that some replies are dupes, despite the different dates and all... possibly in
    response to the opposite problem in A_L, where messages come back as
    dupes with only the time-date changed... all very weird... ;) So I'm changing the subject lines for all of them now...

    Shinies weren't so important to me, but books used to get me
    off-track... some days more easily than others... now, it's more
    that my mind might start to wander, and things just don't quite get
    done... And then there's all the interruptions in my own plans for
    things that need doing for other people.. :)

    I stopped having books be quite such a shiny for me right when I
    started college. Up until then I'd lose myself in volumes for days, sometimes weeks, depending on the size and the content of what it was that I'd sunk my nose into.

    I was always a very fast reader, so I'd get through a book in a day or
    so, often less... Books got to be a little less of a shiny when my eyes
    started giving me problems... sigh... ;)

    Other shinies used to be pretty big for me, but they've faded
    primarily during the poverty years. It's funny how much you can just cease to contemplate as options become bereft for such a long time.

    True... one starts to see that some things just aren't really as shiny
    as they appear, when necessities by necessity trump them... <G> Like
    my son discovering that he could spend the same amount of money on
    snacky foods for a day or real food for two weeks... and the money in
    hand had to last him until the next small paycheck, in two weeks... ;)
    He called me from college to report that fact, and his very wise
    decision to go with the real food... ;) That was a couple of decades
    ago now, but the lesson seems to have stuck, mostly... ;)

    I'm trying to re-cultivate my reading habit, but it's taking time.
    Part of it is, I believe, that my bio-mom wants me to read her
    manuscript and tell her what I think of it. I've only known her for a few years and I'm flat out horrified that it's going to suck and I
    don't want to lie to her about it. Guess I should just sack up and do what I need to anyway.

    Guess so. ;) Hopefully it won't be too bad, and you'll be able to
    just find areas that she could edit some to make them better... And if
    you're really lucky, it'll be good, and you'll be able to tell her so. :)

    Keeping my fingers crossed for aikido this week, though. It'd be
    And if you can do it together, so much the better for both of you, on
    various levels... :)

    Absolutely. Unfortunately, finances were gobbled due to a bank
    error (one that was not my own), and I have no aikido fund, nor even
    the prospect of a next paper check in the near future, as the same individual who made the banking mishap with my paycheck also got behind on invoicing the contractor. I'll hold my tongue about that little debaucle for a little while, though. Needless to say I'm not pleased about it, but there's also nothing I can do, and it is a temporary situation. Afterwards I will be loaded with the cash that I was prevented from spending frivolously, so it could be a good thing in disguise, I suppose, in a very Loki-inspired kind of way.

    Hopefully it will all work out properly in the end... maybe even
    already... Sounds like someone isn't particularly meticulous with
    keeping accounts....

    possible. When I've got the next paycheck in I should be able to
    make up for things a little bit, hopefully.
    Sometimes we just can't get everything we'd like to... and it's not a
    bad lesson to learn when young... :)

    You have hit that nail right on the head, I believe. Hell, the
    fiscal diet that we've been on, despite the fact that I'm pulling in
    more money than I ever have, except for some stretches in the military, perhaps, has given me a nice little reminder of this fact, as well as
    the buddhist tenet that nothing is permanent, and to hold onto
    something is to open yourself up for suffering.

    Not just buddhist... :) Material things aren't permanent just by their nature...

    We're all doing good.... Physically. There's been a little bit of mental malaise going on in the house, but it [thankfully] hasn't struck me, and I think its victim is slowly getting back on the horse, so it's all good. Losing a whopping load of somebody else's money that you had slated to pay back will do that to a person, I suppose. Especially if other life areas are imploding due to poor planning and execution at
    the same time.

    Ouch. Hope he gets it all back together properly... :)

    More later! I'm on a small roll here already today!

    I see. ;) Well, I've things now I have to go do, so I'll have to
    break for now, and get back to messaging later... :)

    ttyl neb

    ... "At last I'm organized", he sighed, and died.

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  • From Damon A. Getsman@1:2320/100 to Nancy Backus on Fri Jul 24 13:36:02 2015
    Re: Shinies and not-so shiny was: shinies and sickies
    By: Nancy Backus to Damon A. Getsman on Thu Jul 23 2015 14:24:06

    I'm sorta testing a theory... that something might be thinking that some replies are dupes, despite the different dates and all... possibly in response to the opposite problem in A_L, where messages come back as
    dupes with only the time-date changed... all very weird... ;) So I'm changing the subject lines for all of them now...

    I've been wondering about that a little bit myself, lately. I'm glad you've decided to get the initiative to test it out. :) Let's see what happens.

    I was always a very fast reader, so I'd get through a book in a day or
    so, often less... Books got to be a little less of a shiny when my eyes started giving me problems... sigh... ;)

    Me too. I just lost the ability to do it for pleasure in college. It's slowly coming back, but not as quickly as I'd like. Maybe I need to sever myself from the electronic teat here a little bit, as well.

    True... one starts to see that some things just aren't really as shiny
    as they appear, when necessities by necessity trump them... <G> Like
    my son discovering that he could spend the same amount of money on
    snacky foods for a day or real food for two weeks... and the money in
    hand had to last him until the next small paycheck, in two weeks... ;)
    He called me from college to report that fact, and his very wise
    decision to go with the real food... ;) That was a couple of decades
    ago now, but the lesson seems to have stuck, mostly... ;)

    A good example. I'm looking very much forward to [hopefully] seeing ones like that from my own little man here. He's already showed some remarkable discretion in being able to decide when it's a good idea to splurge on the junk
    food or save and get something a few notches higher. I didn't really expect to
    see that at 8.

    Guess so. ;) Hopefully it won't be too bad, and you'll be able to
    just find areas that she could edit some to make them better... And if you're really lucky, it'll be good, and you'll be able to tell her so.
    :)

    I'm hoping so. I finally got through the first 10 pages early last night. I'm going to try to make a goal of getting through at least 20 pages a night until I'm done. So far the writing is pretty friggin' good. Reminds me a little bit of Peter Straub.

    Hopefully it will all work out properly in the end... maybe even already... Sounds like someone isn't particularly meticulous with
    keeping accounts....

    Yeah... Well the paperwork is coming to us separately now, so I'm not going to be losing money like that again.

    Not just buddhist... :) Material things aren't permanent just by their nature...

    Well Buddhism is just a philosophy for desribing the world and how to be the best person you can be throughout that. It's not a religion. One might say, though, that all is Buddhism, just as all is Physics, and start a great religious war that way. ;)

    I see. ;) Well, I've things now I have to go do, so I'll have to
    break for now, and get back to messaging later... :)

    Ditto that. More soon!

    -D
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