Quoting Damon A. Getsman to Nancy Backus on 11-Jul-2015 09:54 <=-
Re: Re: shinies and sickies was: camping
By: Nancy Backus to Damon A. Getsman on Sat Jun 27 2015 19:09:18
Shinies weren't so important to me, but books used to get me
off-track... some days more easily than others... now, it's more
that my mind might start to wander, and things just don't quite get
done... And then there's all the interruptions in my own plans for
things that need doing for other people.. :)
I stopped having books be quite such a shiny for me right when I
started college. Up until then I'd lose myself in volumes for days, sometimes weeks, depending on the size and the content of what it was that I'd sunk my nose into.
Other shinies used to be pretty big for me, but they've faded
primarily during the poverty years. It's funny how much you can just cease to contemplate as options become bereft for such a long time.
I'm trying to re-cultivate my reading habit, but it's taking time.
Part of it is, I believe, that my bio-mom wants me to read her
manuscript and tell her what I think of it. I've only known her for a few years and I'm flat out horrified that it's going to suck and I
don't want to lie to her about it. Guess I should just sack up and do what I need to anyway.
Keeping my fingers crossed for aikido this week, though. It'd be
And if you can do it together, so much the better for both of you, on
various levels... :)
Absolutely. Unfortunately, finances were gobbled due to a bank
error (one that was not my own), and I have no aikido fund, nor even
the prospect of a next paper check in the near future, as the same individual who made the banking mishap with my paycheck also got behind on invoicing the contractor. I'll hold my tongue about that little debaucle for a little while, though. Needless to say I'm not pleased about it, but there's also nothing I can do, and it is a temporary situation. Afterwards I will be loaded with the cash that I was prevented from spending frivolously, so it could be a good thing in disguise, I suppose, in a very Loki-inspired kind of way.
possible. When I've got the next paycheck in I should be able to
make up for things a little bit, hopefully.
Sometimes we just can't get everything we'd like to... and it's not a
bad lesson to learn when young... :)
You have hit that nail right on the head, I believe. Hell, the
fiscal diet that we've been on, despite the fact that I'm pulling in
more money than I ever have, except for some stretches in the military, perhaps, has given me a nice little reminder of this fact, as well as
the buddhist tenet that nothing is permanent, and to hold onto
something is to open yourself up for suffering.
We're all doing good.... Physically. There's been a little bit of mental malaise going on in the house, but it [thankfully] hasn't struck me, and I think its victim is slowly getting back on the horse, so it's all good. Losing a whopping load of somebody else's money that you had slated to pay back will do that to a person, I suppose. Especially if other life areas are imploding due to poor planning and execution at
the same time.
More later! I'm on a small roll here already today!
I'm sorta testing a theory... that something might be thinking that some replies are dupes, despite the different dates and all... possibly in response to the opposite problem in A_L, where messages come back as
dupes with only the time-date changed... all very weird... ;) So I'm changing the subject lines for all of them now...
I was always a very fast reader, so I'd get through a book in a day or
so, often less... Books got to be a little less of a shiny when my eyes started giving me problems... sigh... ;)
True... one starts to see that some things just aren't really as shiny
as they appear, when necessities by necessity trump them... <G> Like
my son discovering that he could spend the same amount of money on
snacky foods for a day or real food for two weeks... and the money in
hand had to last him until the next small paycheck, in two weeks... ;)
He called me from college to report that fact, and his very wise
decision to go with the real food... ;) That was a couple of decades
ago now, but the lesson seems to have stuck, mostly... ;)
Guess so. ;) Hopefully it won't be too bad, and you'll be able to:)
just find areas that she could edit some to make them better... And if you're really lucky, it'll be good, and you'll be able to tell her so.
Hopefully it will all work out properly in the end... maybe even already... Sounds like someone isn't particularly meticulous with
keeping accounts....
Not just buddhist... :) Material things aren't permanent just by their nature...
I see. ;) Well, I've things now I have to go do, so I'll have to
break for now, and get back to messaging later... :)
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